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Unexpected Rules of to Build Confidence

Our team in always tells aspiring motivational speakers to uphold self-confidence all the time because the audience can only believe in them if they also believe in themselves. It is a cliché already, but a lot of people just cannot get it no matter how often it is told.

The mind is a powerful source of confidence, but if you find it hard to control at times, has other unexpected rules for you to try.

1. Understand the basics of non-verbal communication.

motivational-speaker Experts say that 80% of communication is non-verbal. In fact, a single nod sometimes speaks louder than a resounding “yes.” The same is true when it comes to delivering a speech and building rapport. Oftentimes, you need to send non-verbal signals that say it is okay for people to respond to you. You will find this more helpful when you are in a public setting where people of the same interests are not personally connected with each other.

Non-verbal communication, when used inappropriately, can instantly repel other people and close the door for any opportunities to make a connection. One of the most common mistakes a motivational speaker commit is indicating their lofty status through gestures. These gestures include perking up above eye level and giving away fleeting glances when speaking. Remember that impressing with your stature gains admiration, but not rapport. Similarly, your status is enough reason for some people to want to listen to you, but letting them feel your difference from them can keep them distant and perhaps intimidated. Rapport is lost, and so is trust.

Not giving any signs of understanding, such as a smile, a nod, and a pout also shows disinterest. Furthermore, a long speech without affective gestures is boring and seems rehearsed.

Non-verbal communication is definitely a big factor in developing confidence. However, we, at, believe that verbal communication is still the biggest element that you need to master as a motivational speaker. If non-verbal communication opens the door, verbal communication keeps it open for you to do what you need to do.

2. Apply rebranding.

People say that when women suddenly change their hairstyles and fashion sense, they are trying to rebrand themselves to leave a bitter experience behind and come out stronger and better. That is not necessarily true all the time.

Rebranding helps in reinforcing self-confidence whenever you feel it waning, perhaps due to a bad experience on stage or because of other people’s malicious comments. A new image will definitely help you feel better about yourself, and that will emanate in the way you speak, move on stage, and connect with the audience. Feeling good about yourself also makes you look better. Your emotional status comes out naturally in your smile, aura, disposition, behavior, and energy.

motivational-speakersDon’t you feel happy and excited whenever you have a new pair of shoes or whenever you get a nice facial? Then do something to make you feel happy before going on stage. Pamper yourself. Read a good book. Buy new clothes. The happiness and excitement that you feel are things that draw people to you. Becoming a good speaker is just one aspect of achieving success in this business because at the end of the day, it is still your message and personality, not your delivery, which leaves the biggest mark.

Interest naturally wanes when people think that they already know everything about you and think that they have heard everything you have to say. The solution to this is to present yourself in a different form and make them wonder if you still have new things to share. You have to keep people constantly looking towards your direction to secure their attention.

3. Bring your lucky charm with you.

Our team in emphasizes over and over again that the best source of confidence for motivational speakers is their own mind. The right mindset can take you a long way, regardless of the challenges and failure that you experience as a speaker. However, it does not hurt to have something comforting besides you every time you battle nervousness while doing your job.

A lucky charm need not be something magical and mysterious. It can be anything that makes you feel comfortable for some reason. Some people put coins in their shoes out of the belief that it brings luck. Some people press a stress ball or play with a pen while behind the lectern. Some wear their lucky shirts to important events to make them feel good. While these habits sound silly, what is important is that they create a positive effect that can help a motivational speaker perform his roles very well.